WSGF HTPC Build w/ AMD Trinity APU

I've decided to build an HTPC based on the AMD Trinity APU, and I need your help in picking out the last few parts (case, PSU, RAM and Blu-Ray).

At a recent checkup, the pediatrician asked me what gaming console I would recommend. After going through the pros and cons of each current console, I settled on the Xbox 360 as my recommendation. Then after a moment, it dawned on me that an HTPC would be a better option for his (and my kids) to game on.

I figure that a small form factor PC based on an APU, with an Xbox controller, and Steam in Big Picture Mode will fit the bill perfectly. So, I've decided to test the theory by doing an HTPC build centered on the AMD A10-6800K. This will also give me a good testbed for future single screen benchmarking.

To reduce the footprint, I had thought I would pick a Mini-ITX FM2 motherboard. Unfortunately their is only one A85-based board, and it seems to have performance and/or DOA issues.

I thought I might get a Micro-ATX board, but that only saves me 6cm over the MSI FM2-A85XA-G65 I already have from AMD. So, I'll save myself the $100 on a new motherboard and go with what I have. I also picked up a SanDisk Extreme 240GB SSD, when Amazon had them for $140.

Based on the eXtreme Power Supply Calculator I only need a 208W power supply. So maybe I can find something fanless and quiet. For a case, I looked at the the Steacom FC10, it's pricey and maxes out at a 95W TDP. I also looked at the SilverStone LC-19. While it does come with a fanless PSU, it only works for Mini-ITX and Micro-ATX.

Looking at the parts, list I still need RAM, Case, PSU and possibly a Blu-Ray drives. I need it to fit in my media center, so the physical constraints on the case are 17" wide and 4.5" tall. So, what would you recommend?