Is it possible that there is a firewall at the remote location blocking your outgoing connection?
Well actually, I haven't gotten around to trying it from elsewhere, but that router help page has a link to a VNC site that checks for responses from your IP. The next palce i can internet accesss from is pretty far, and no one esle in my house is computer literate enough to help.
ANd yes, all other router functions work well. And this particular router has been my favouraite, by far. I've had 4 others. I also have Zonealarm, but I made sure that let VNC through as well.
I'm using VNC 4.2.2 but I guess I'll give Ultra another go.. it's worked in the past.
OR mabye try Radmin or something.. unless anyone can suggest a superior program, free or no?
Thanks for the suggestions.
EDIT: okay well i got Ultra VNC to work. Luckily whiel i was setting it up the guy who introduced me to VNC in the frist place happened to be online and was able to test it for me.
Now all is well.. Assuming the encrytion works once i set it up. Going the paranoid route and using vnc on both computers: from outside to 'other ' machien and vnc in THAT one to access mine. Woner what'll happen if i try to go back into the first machine? Universe collapses? Maybe i should appolgise in advance.
Bwah ha ha, buk buk buk.