at the same time i feel like if im going to choose this dual boot route. i should have the know how to fix what ever problems may come up.
exactly, if your not able to fix problems yourself, don't do it. just imagine how frustrated you would be when something happens, you are in the middle of a project that needs to be completed for work. don't get me wrong, i like messing around with hackintoshes (along with linux and unix machines), its fun for me to tinker around, but those projects are just extra machines that i put together for friends or family, and will probably be on "tech support" duty for the rest of my life, cause they have no clue how it works, they just want it to work.
the problem is im so sick of looking and the little rainbow wheel that im ready to through it out the window. moving from photoshop to aperture to iphoto to the web and back takes forever. im looking to have my transitions with photo work be real fast and smooth. plus i do hdr stuff where you over lay there different exposers over each other for one shot. the mini is just real underpowered imo.
older Mac Mini are notoriously equipped as is when you buy them from the store. I have a 2007 model mac mini with the core2duo 1.83ghz intel chip inside and it was seriously getting on my nerves for the same reason as you described...that damned beach ball. I did a little digging around to see why it was so slow...... #1 - it came with 1GB of RAM (seems absurd in this day and age) the system monitor show that just about every time that beach ball came up it was paging in/out to the hard drive for virtual memory. #2 - the stock 80gb hard drive was full, and it was having to seek & scavenge around to find random space on the drive to use for virtual memory.
as i'm writing this now, i'm reloading OSX on it & bootcamp. i just installed 4GB of ram, and a 500gb hard drive, and upgraded the dvd-rom to a dvd-RW. going to give it to my sister and her husband. they have never used a mac so i put the boot camp / windows 7 on there so he can run his accounting software for work, and use OSX for daily web browsing, movie watching, facebooking, etc.
the current 2010/2011 model mac mini (new unibody design) has better specs. 2.53ghz dual core, 2gb ram (can upgrade to 8GB for $119 from OWC) and it has nvidia 9400M graphics (compared to integrated intel graphics on mine) Basically it is the 13" macbook pro squashed into a square.
morale of the story, always make sure you have too much memory. all those beach balls / hourglasses / spinning blue circles is the system swapping out virtual memory to the hard drive, and waiting for the slow a$$ drive to hurry up. heck playing WoW on my PC was slow and jerky. borrowing memory from another machine to go from 4 to 8gb fixed it. next day went to frys and bought 16gb for this machine.
in the end im looking for a dual boot system that is going to give me little to no issues or hassle.
the meter would be leaning more towards Mac+bootcamp end of the meter, and less towards a PC+hackintosh. From the couple that i have made for friends/family i always get a phone call when a new update for OSX comes out, and if its ok to apply it.
on the gaming side im looking for a new experience with the tri monitor set up. so yes i want to have eye candy. at the same time i dont want to spend huge money to be on the cutting edge of gpu performance. no liquid cooling or any of that crazy stuff.
if you go with a mac, the only way you can do eyefinity right now is with a Mac Pro with a 5770 or 5870. The 5870 is a decent card, but a generation behind. with a mac you will NEVER be able to do NV-Surround with the cards that are available now / in the near future.
if you want to do the PC route, a current gen video card with MORE than 1gb of vram would be best. multi-monitors with eye candy turned up DEVOUR VRAM. problem you run into is the 2GB 6000-series ATI cards wont work correctly with OSX. (no 6000 series drivers for osx yet) you may be able to use the 5870 (2gb) cards. 460 SLI you mentioned should work, but i would be nice to have a little more than 1GB per card. 470 or 480, 570 or 580 would be better but i havent seen much on the hackintosh boards about them working 100% yet. will have to check some more.
is it possible to have a hackintosh running that isnt going to give me problems at every corner?
they can be fairly trouble free once the initial setup issues are taking care of. But, you have to make sure that you a fair amount of research before you click "OK" on the software update window. I remember everyone hackintoshing their HP mini netbooks, until one of OSX updates removed the Intel Atom processor support from the main OS Kernel. Boom, no boot anymore. then people had to install a patched kernel, and yadda-yadda-hassle-hassle
if you are going to hackintosh, spend a good amount of time on InsanlyMac forums, and TonyMacX86 forums. See what people are having problems with, and try to avoid their mistakes.
Sorry i don't have a single "do this and you'll be fine" answer. Just making sure you are as educated & prepared as possible to make the correct decision for what fits you best.